The Longing
Perfumer: Christi Meshell
Votes lean feminine
53 ratings
From your scent profile
House of Matriarch The Longing is a unisex scent where boronia, plum and jasmine meet honey, vanilla and amber, leaning sweet, gourmand and creamy.
Skunky's take: The flowers do the talking, the rest listens.
How does it perform?
From 50 community ratings, all out of 10.
Holds up through the day and fades gently toward evening.
People close to you notice, nobody gets overwhelmed.
Sits nicely on a shelf.
The price makes you think, so a small size is a smart start.
Blind buy risk
72% of votes are positive, the rest are more reserved.
Notes
They open one after another, from the first spray into the evening.
Heart notesfirst few hours
Base noteswhat stays into the evening
Accords
From most dominant to most subtle.
- Floral
- Fruity
- Sweet
- Gourmand
- Spicy
- Woody
- Animal
- Creamy
What does The Longing smell like?
It opens with boronia, butter, plum, jasmine and oud, the fruity sweetness shadowed by oud's resinous side. In the heart, orange blossom, osmanthus and honey turn the florals creamy. The base settles into leather, sandalwood and amber, where leathery and animalic tones balance the sweetness.
Longevity is rated strong and sillage good. Most voters pick autumn and winter, and see it mainly for evenings and nights out. Feminine and masculine votes are almost even, so it reads truly unisex. Le Frag Pippilotta and Nishane Nefs have a close profile.
How it changes through the day
First minutes
- Boronia
- Butter
- Plum
First hours
- Orange blossom
- Osmanthus
- Honey
Towards evening
- Ambrette
- Leather
- Vanilla
When to wear it?
Seasons and occasions, by user votes.
- 40%Autumn
- 39%Winter
- 17%Spring
- 4%Summer
- Evening31%
- Nighttime26%
- Casual25%
- Daytime13%
- Office5%
Least picked for the office.
Smells like this
The closest scents by notes and accords.
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Le Frag · 2021
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Azman · 2022
45% matchInfini Elixir
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45% matchTyger Tyger (Extrait de Parfum)
Francesca Bianchi · 2020
43% matchNefarious
Alexandria Fragrances · 2022
42% matchGold I
Widian · 2016
42% matchPassionate
Boadicea the Victorious · 2009
42% matchNefs
Nishane · 2019
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Last updated: October 26, 2026














