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Kilian

Killing Me Slowly

Perfumer: Calice Becker

2014UnisexClassic

Votes lean feminine

7.9/ 10
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Kilian Killing Me Slowly is a unisex scent that moves from the fresh, fruity lychee and blackcurrant bud of its opening through rose, heliotrope and hawthorn to a powdery, vanilla-sweet base of iris.

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Skunky's take: A card-carrying member of the fresh club.

How does it perform?

From 63 community ratings, all out of 10.

Longevity
7.2 /10

Holds up through the day and fades gently toward evening.

Sillage
6.6 /10

Leaves a light trail and stays polite in a crowd.

Bottle
8.5 /10

Talks even from the shelf.

Blind buy risk

Low risk

88% of votes are positive and opinions barely differ.

Notes

They open one after another, from the first spray into the evening.

Top notesfirst 15 minutes

Silk
BuchuLychee
French blackcurrant bud absolute

Heart notesfirst few hours

Base noteswhat stays into the evening

Accords

From most dominant to most subtle.

  1. Fresh
  2. Floral
  3. Fruity
  4. Sweet
  5. Synthetic
  6. Gourmand
  7. Powdery
  8. Creamy

What does Killing Me Slowly smell like?

Longevity is rated good and sillage moderate, so it stays fairly close to the skin. Most voters pick spring, followed by fall and summer, and the occasion votes are spread across leisure, evening, work and daily wear. More than half of voters read it as feminine.

It opens fresh and fruity with silk, buchu and lychee. Heliotrope, rose and hawthorn give the heart a soft floral character. In the base, iris and Bourbon vanilla absolute settle it into a powdery, creamy, gourmand sweetness. Carolina Herrera Very Good Girl (Eau de Parfum) and Kappa Momento have a close profile.

How it changes through the day

  1. First minutes

    • Silk
    • Buchu
    • Lychee
  2. First hours

    • Heliotrope
    • Rose
    • Hawthorn
  3. Towards evening

    • Iris
    • Bourbon vanilla absolute

When to wear it?

Seasons and occasions, by user votes.

  • 31%
    Spring
  • 27%
    Autumn
  • 25%
    Summer
  • 17%
    Winter
  • Casual
    22%
  • Nighttime
    21%
  • Evening
    20%
  • Office
    19%
  • Daytime
    18%

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Last updated: October 26, 2026