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Kilian

Love Don't Be Shy Extreme

Perfumer: Calice Becker

2021WomenModern
8.0/ 10
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Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Extreme is a floral, sweet fragrance that softens a gourmand, creamy and powdery core with a fresh edge, and it is aimed mostly at women.

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Skunky's take: A night owl's pick; made for evenings out.

How does it perform?

From 177 community ratings, all out of 10.

Longevity
8.3 /10

Holds up through the day and fades gently toward evening.

Sillage
8.0 /10

People close to you notice, nobody gets overwhelmed.

Bottle
8.6 /10

Talks even from the shelf.

Value for money
6.3 /10

The price makes you think, so a small size is a smart start.

Blind buy risk

Low risk

85% of votes are positive and opinions barely differ.

Notes

They open one after another, from the first spray into the evening.

Accords

From most dominant to most subtle.

  1. Fresh
  2. Floral
  3. Fruity
  4. Sweet
  5. Gourmand
  6. Powdery
  7. Creamy

What does Love Don't Be Shy Extreme smell like?

Longevity and sillage are both rated strong, so it leaves a clear trail. Most voters pick spring and fall, with winter not far behind and summer a small share. It leans towards evenings and nights out, and it is also worn for leisure. Half of the voters call it feminine, with modern second.

Bulgarian rose, orange blossom and marshmallow sit at its centre. The flowers blend into a sugary, creamy sweetness, the powdery and fruity tones soften it, and the fresh accord keeps it from turning heavy. Scentiments Shy Neroli Extreme and Kilian Love Don't Be Shy Eau Fraîche have a close profile.

When to wear it?

Seasons and occasions, by user votes.

  • 33%
    Spring
  • 32%
    Autumn
  • 24%
    Winter
  • 11%
    Summer
  • Evening
    27%
  • Nighttime
    26%
  • Casual
    23%
  • Daytime
    14%
  • Office
    8%

Go easy on it for the office: the sillage is strong.

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